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Sexual desire

2 modes

  • anticipation of sexual arousal.
    getting aroused thinking of possible sex.
  • responsive” desire, in response to sexual arousal.
    Becoming aroused by being touched sexually.

sexual excitement is fed by longing, or the inability to have what you crave immediately
vs you can schedule sex in the calendar, and you’ll look forward to it, just like a date.
why planned sex doesn’t suck

spontaneous sexual desire can feel easy, fun and come out of nowhere. it happens to you

Your desire and passion don’t matter as much, they don’t define the success of a sexual relationship. Pleasure does. article